Think Your Partner is Cheating? Here’s How to Hire a Private Investigator?

By Editor1SYS | April 26, 2020 0 Comments

There’s nothing worse then finding out that your spouse or significant other is cheating on you. However, how do people find this out? Most people might just find out accidentally, whilst others just have a gut feeling. Sometimes your gut is right though, but how do you prove it? Experts say the best way is to hire a private investigator to help you find out more and can confirm your suspicious quickly.

Don’t worry you’re not going crazy either, statistics show that wives who suspect their partner of cheating are about 85% correct every time. It would be a lot easier if your partner didn’t cheat though obviously, and you wouldn’t be sat there worry for so long if they just told you. Sometimes honesty is the way forward even if it’s hard. However, what do you do when your partner doesn’t tell you that they are/have cheated? You may try to uncover the truth yourself, but often this is ineffective, which is why it’s a lot better to hire a private investigator.

Wait Until You Have Proof Before Contacting Your Partner

If you have suspicions that your spouse or partner is cheating, you should never confront them about it. While it is important that you talk to your partner about any problems you have, when it comes to infidelity, it’s normally better to wait until you have proof. You don’t want to accuse them of anything and then find out that they weren’t doing anything wrong. The only way that you can get proof though is to have hard evidence, having a gut feeling is not enough.

You need to have pictures, catching them with the other person etc. Once you have this hard proof then you can accuse them. However, if you confront them before you have this evidence then they’ll just deny everything, and you will probably find that they are more secretive afterwards. This will make it a lot harder for you, or the private investigator to obtain any proof. So, although it is frustrating having to wait, it’s the best thing that you can do – remember if you are wrong then you have nothing to worry about! 

Look for Signs of Cheating

Obviously, if you think that your partner is cheating, then they must be doing something to raise your suspicions. However, there’s no point calling a private investigator just for the sake of it. First think about why they are being so secretive – is there a birthday coming up, maybe they are planning a surprise party etc… The signs for cheating are quite obvious though, so you won’t have to look very hard.

These signs could be anything like, an increase or decrease in intimacy, affection levels or sexual interest. Sometimes they might feel guilty with being with someone else so they show you more affection than normal, or it could go the other way where they show you less. A big sign would be that they have suspicious phone habits. If they have a lock on their phone, keep it face down and won’t let it leave their side, then that could be a huge sign. 

Keep a Journal of Your Partner’s Whereabouts

This might seem like an issue with trust, however, if your partner is actually cheating then it would be a good idea to keep a journal of their whereabouts, as this can help you keep track of their changing behaviour. It is so crucial that you write down all important information, as this means that you can back everything up. A cheating partner will change their story or question your memory, and at least with this journal you will be able to bring light to these inconsistencies. If they start questioning you, then you know that something is wrong, particularly when you have the proof that they said they were doing x on one night, but then claimed to be doing something else another night.

Now it might not be enough to prove anything (they might just have a bad memory), however, it just means that you have a better reason to hire a private investigator since you have legitimate suspicions. If he is cheating, then it’s up to you to decide what to do next. Although it will be painful, often the best thing to do is end the relationship and move on. Although this will be tough, you will be able to find love again. And you’ll be very glad that you did move on, as that special someone is out there waiting for you.